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Old 12-23-2011, 10:43 PM
monkeystyle monkeystyle is offline
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Cheryl, your bf sounds like a total ass. Why wait for him to dump you? Make a pre-emptive strike. Time to take out the trash, honey.
Definitely ditto to what she said.
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Old 12-26-2011, 04:05 PM
Jericka Jericka is offline
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The boyfriend does not sound like a catch. Your life sounds like it would be immensely simpler without him.

Take a break and work on making things simpler and more comfortable for a while. Talk to your husband, even if there's no hope for romance. Keep the communication open and as civil or even friendly as you can. If you can reduce the complications and clutter in your life in other ways, you might try it. Find or make some room in your life and your headspace to think and process things, instead of reacting.
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