so it has been a while(over a year) since i have been on here, let alone post. last year, i was seeing a guy, and hubby was seeing a girl.... well needless to say either worked out. i was so depressed, the guy turned out to be a total jerk. i am finally over him! yay! and i have put myself back out there. seriously this time. and i met someone! d is sweet, and great and my hubby likes him and he is also married with 3 kids just like us! we have so much in common... it is awesome! we have only known each other for a week and a half, but we have been emailing and texting and totally getting to know each other. last night was a perfect night... you see hubby is in korea right now(stupid military), so the only way he can contact anyone is thru the computer..... so i set up a group message on facebook so the 4 of us could chat and get to know each other... d and i were so amazed to see that j and my hubby were getting along! neither one of them knows yet if they identify as poly, like d and i do.... so they are both just experimenting right now. but they are emailing back and forth too! d and i are hoping they hit it off and at least can become friends. the even cooler thing is i get to meet j in february... which is awesome that things are working out that way. i met d thru craigslist which is something i never would have expected.... he was in town for business and we met up and had dinner and all that fun stuff... neither one of us expecting it to go anywhere. i dont know if what i am feeling is love or nre, but i am totally going with it and enjoying it... even hubby is ok with it all, which makes me super happy. since hubby and i are moving to florida in june, we are talking about having d and j come visit with their kids... oh yeah all of the kids are roughly the same ages!!! so we are talking about taking them to disney and having a blast on the beach. i am hoping that this is the real thing, i like it. i just wish that one of my guys was closer right now... i want to cuddle on this cool sunday morning.
wow this was all over the place, but it is nice to get it out... i am excited about it, and i just had to tell someone and only like one of my friends gets it...... it is too early to call her! lmao... ill definitly be posting more as things go on from here... it will be nice to keep a sort of journal of all that happens!