Originally Posted by Storm
Thanks for your input redpepper... I'm not sure either of us could stand living with someone if we didn't feel they were our friend and we only tolerated them.
I'm a little confused as to what in my post suggested you live with someone you can't tolerate. I was telling you my story about living in a vee because it is possible to care and love people who are your partners partner without being sexually involved with them or considering them your partner.
Poly gives me the opportuntiy to love people completely. I have friends that I hold in moments of comfort while they cry on my shoulder that I would never have out side of my poly community. Some people have sexual relationships with their friends and have partners that seem for an out sider to be equally as close.