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Old 11-24-2011, 09:25 AM
Masterq81 Masterq81 is offline
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Hi I am Ray, I live in the UK and am new to Poly relationships. My situation is probably a bit strange to some but I will explain it.
I have a Master / slave relationship and am married to a wonderful woman called Cali, due to work situation much of my time is spent away from home, we spend lots of time communicating and even manage some sex stuff on MSN and on the phone.

Cali, my slave and wife is allowed sex partners while im away ( and we have occasionally had others in our bed for moresomes ) and I can watch via webcam, this works very well under the circumstances, recently we found a man called Dave who we discovered was looking for a poly relationship, he had grown close to Cali as her sex partner and socialising and Cali is developing feelings for him too. I never doubt that she loves me and we have all talked at length about where this will go, its very early days so this is just my way of an introduction.

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Ray
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Old 11-24-2011, 10:38 AM
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Hi Ray

Theres a few of us on here in the UK. Sounds like an awesome setup!

Welcome to the forum!
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Old 11-24-2011, 10:57 AM
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Hi Ray

Theres a few of us on here in the UK. Sounds like an awesome setup!

Welcome to the forum!
Hi bassman, I was worried that maybe there would be a lack of UK people on here so thats good to know.
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Old 11-24-2011, 05:42 PM
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Welcome! I've never been a slave but I have had D/s interactions and I hope they will continue to be a part of my relationships in the future. May I ask how you guys plan to manage that dynamic in the context of Cali and Dave? Obviously there are lots of possibilities, but I'm curious -- will she be his slave too, will he answer to you in any way?
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Old 11-24-2011, 05:56 PM
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Welcome! I've never been a slave but I have had D/s interactions and I hope they will continue to be a part of my relationships in the future. May I ask how you guys plan to manage that dynamic in the context of Cali and Dave? Obviously there are lots of possibilities, but I'm curious -- will she be his slave too, will he answer to you in any way?
Hi Annabel

Cali only ever answers to me and is in fact very dominant with other males which makes for an intersting dynamic, Dave is naturally submissive and enjoys being told what to do with regards Cali, not entirely sure where its going yet as early days yet

Ray
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Old 11-24-2011, 11:31 PM
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Welcome Ray! I'm looking forward to hearing more about your, Cali's and Dave's life.

I was wondering are those your real names? If so, it might be prudent to think of some aliases for here.
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Old 11-25-2011, 07:00 AM
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Welcome Ray! I'm looking forward to hearing more about your, Cali's and Dave's life.

I was wondering are those your real names? If so, it might be prudent to think of some aliases for here.
No these are the names we use on forums, I will certainly post more on where we go from here, this is a very good forum.
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