Originally Posted by DubiousProposition
How do people get through this shit?
Time mostly. And a lot of crying. Medication may help.
Or they don't and decide to end it. Been there. Almost did that. Twice. Please don't do that.
I feel for you. Your life sucks right now and there's little you can do about it.
That you wife fell in love..... not so bad. That the fell in love with someone who thinks her little more than a toy.... that's bad. I think that relationship should end. Not just for your sake, but for hers too.... its poisonous.
Eventually you will heal. And a divorce may actually be the least painfull of the options.
I spent much of my life badly broken in many many ways. I got better eventually. I bet you will too.