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Old 10-28-2011, 05:26 PM
Chimera Chimera is offline
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
Holy serial posting, RedPepper!
Made for interesting reading and this thread represents why I don't think there can be a poly community as such.

So the OP and I have poly in common, but are about 180 degrees apart in the politics that come out in the comments. I see it as a huge rationalization with New Age-y jargon for not dealing with someone who is cheating, and not recognizing one's own responsibility in that kind of a situation. There was no generous thinking toward the other woman, who was being lied to. That kind of lying takes her decision-making power away from her. Talk about egos involved.

I'm with RP for most of this one!
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