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Old 11-02-2009, 06:55 AM
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Default The weirdest poly emotional oddity ever.

So I don't feel like explaining it right now, but things with Anne just ended HORRIBLY in a very ugly breakup.

And now I am experiencing very, very weird emotional dichotomy.

I'm going through all the same post-bad-breakup feelings I know so well from my past. But Violet is still here and I love her and I still have this positive relationship in my life. While going through a horrible nasty breakup. So I really want to hate all women and all their manipulative shit for a while, but I can't. Because I love Violet. And that's good - but it's denying me my women hating moment, lol.

It kinda makes my brain hurt. But in a good way. Kinda.
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Old 11-02-2009, 07:32 AM
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oh dear, I'm so sorry...
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Old 11-02-2009, 07:45 AM
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Im so sorry to hear this too. Hope your both ok. (((hugs)))
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Sorry it ended so badly.
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Old 11-02-2009, 03:16 PM
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I have felt that very same feeling in the past. I found it to be so much nicer than the gut-wrenching break up where you're left all alone with your grief.

Hoping for the best for the three of you wherever it goes from here.
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Old 11-02-2009, 03:21 PM
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(((((((hugs))))))))) so sorry u had a breakup
i can relate when i broke up with M i wanted to hate all men, and i couldn't because i still had montianboy and he was so lovley and supportive

i hope you can talk about it soon it might help
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Old 11-05-2009, 07:55 PM
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So sorry HMA.

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Old 11-06-2009, 12:45 AM
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im sorry HMA. thinking of you all. hugs
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Old 11-06-2009, 03:30 PM
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So sorry hun. When P trampled my heart it was weird to still have this amazing relationship with N. Of course, I got to woman hate (despite being a woman myself) because N is a man. I hope you and Violet can carry eachother through. *hug*
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Old 11-07-2009, 05:26 AM
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Sorry for teh lack of updates on this thread; things got going in our thread under life stories. In any event, I'm MUCH better, Violet is well, we're better than we've been in quite some time - even before Anne, actually.

I've gone from being hurt and angry and all that crap to really just feeling sorry for her. I'm hurt, yes - but I'm far more concerned about what Anne's putting herself through , with or without us. *sigh*
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