Figuring out the new woman
Started dating a woman recently who said she is not interested in a poly household yet maintains some contact with old lovers and describes herself as a slut and I believe is holding onto the feelings she derived through sex with her old lovers.
Just open to anyone's general thoughts. Is she poly? Is she something else? Anyone have a previous experience that's similar and any advice the best way to handle.
Also, I am Dominant and she is submissive and we enjoy BDSM, but this ads a different aspect to the relationship.