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Old 10-13-2011, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Iloveyoutwo View Post
His marriage is void of all physical affection and emotional closeness. [....] She has made it perfectly clear that she would leave if he were to do that.
This man looks to me more like a hostage than a husband. His unwillingess to extricate himself from this hostage situation (in which the jail door is left unlocked and no guard is posted) raises serious red flags for me. He may be in many ways a wonderful and beautiful man, but he does not seem to be very good to himself. And being good to one's self is crucial in all loving relationships with others.

Because he needs a fire under his ass, Iloveyoutwo, you have one under your own. I don't envy your hot seat.
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