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Old 10-02-2011, 03:11 AM
cuddlecakes cuddlecakes is offline
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
it seems to me you want to keep a really short leash on your gf and in ways that are somewhat unrealistic or a tad overbearing.
Sorry, I disagree.

I don't know why it's necessary that she call you after every date.
Because we both want it?

Why isn't it enough to know she's dating other people and will inform you about it if and when she is moved to do so?
Because that's not how we work? When I go on dates she wants to talk afterward and hear even more detail than I do.
As long as when she's with you, you have her full attention?
I don't. I'm in her bed but she's currently chatting with the new boy online.
Also, do you see other people, too? That might help relieve some of your worrying about her.
Just a few awkward dates. :/ My other thread is about that.

But again, this is not why I created this thread. Maybe I should create another thread for people to criticize my girlfriend and me?
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