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Old 09-21-2011, 01:45 PM
disarmlow disarmlow is offline
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Default feeling like a peacemaker - being the V in an FFM relationship

So I've been the V for a little over a year now in my FFM relationship. I was with my boyfriend for four years before we decided to add another to the relationship and not just the bedroom. We had been experimenting with other girls for a couple of years when we met one that just clicked with us.

One year later I feel as if I am constantly the peacemaker. Josh and Niki fight CONSTANTLY. They are always arguing...he feels as if she is overemotional and she feels like he's insensitive. Both of these things are true but it seems like I can deal with both of them better than they can deal with each other. My relationship with Niki is fairly sound and my relationship with Josh is solid but their relationship with each other is disintegrating very quickly.

I feel like there is nothing I can do to stop it. I don't want to lose either of them. What can I do to make things better? And if they do end up ending their relationship, I don't know if I can continue on seeing them both. It makes me very nervous.
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