Originally Posted by Somegeezer
Because I think if you don't give yourself a limit and stick to it, he may just end up walking all over you.
May? From here it appears as if he is.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.