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Old 09-18-2011, 02:38 AM
IcySiren IcySiren is offline
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Unhappy Am I just being selfish?

After reading "Marriage Confidential" and an article about non-monogamy, I decided to bring up the topic with my husband. The conversation didn't go well. I was speaking hypothetically and he was speaking accusingly. He didn't understand why I would need to experience the feeling of a "new love" again or why the type of love we have isn't enough for me. Later that day he told me that he just wanted to be "normal" and that he thought I was way too liberal in my thinking about sex.
What to do now? Am I being selfish to want more in my life? I have been married for 11 years and just want to date other men. My life is great, otherwise. My husband is wonderful. We have a daughter and a life I love in a city I love. I don't want a divorce. I just want a connection with another man.
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