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Old 09-14-2011, 10:05 PM
johnh24 johnh24 is offline
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Default An awkard predicament.

Ok, well this is gunna be hard, and i need to explain it.

I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. We're inseperable- and everyone, seemingly in the whole town know we're together.

We're both friends with another girl. She is similar age to us, and has been a best friend to both of us. But recently, after a few disturbing dreams i was talking to this friend, as i always do... and it started to build up over a few months. Last week i finally confessed my feelings. She knows i'm already in a strong relationship, and understands, and she said she loves me back.

Now here's the dilemma. My girlfriend doesn't know. She's a one man, one woman type- and I know she won't change. I think if i tried telling her about this friend (remember, they're best buddies too), I might as well just emotionally die, because she would live in pain for the rest of her life...

Until now, i thought i was having stupid ideas. but they've come to reality. I need to know how i can ever tell her, and we can remain where we are.
Btw, with this other girl, the relationship is not sexual at all.

I hope i find some help.
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