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Old 10-06-2009, 10:24 PM
Novus Novus is offline
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Default Hi...looking for enlightenment

Dear all,
Hi! I have been perusing your forum and found it to be very helpful with my (new) situation. You see, I met a guy, he's fabulous. Before we even really dated he told me he was poly. Not knowing what exactly that meant but knowing that I liked him I did some research and took the plunge anyway. I thought I'd be okay with it and so far, so good. Then he met someone else and although we'd discussed it, and honestly I'd thought about it, it was a little much for my mono-indoctrinated brain to deal with. But being the kind of person who doesn't trash a good thing without research I decided I needed more information. So, I'm here. I found you. I've found your forums very, very helpful as I wrap my brain around this new world I've found myself a part of. I find them friendly and welcoming to those of us seeking enlightenment.
I will have questions, I'm sure, and thank you in advance for any suggestions and guidance you're willing to toss in my direction.
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Old 10-06-2009, 10:57 PM
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Glad to have you. You are starting journey that my dear Mono started almost a year ago. Read Mono's stuff,,,, we have both been here a long time and have had quite a journey.... evident in our threads and posts... mostly Mono's.

Good luck, I'm sure if it is meant to be it will be and if not, you will of learned a hell of a lot. Enjoy!
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Old 10-07-2009, 12:39 AM
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Welcome to the forums. Ask away. Hopefully we can help.
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Old 10-07-2009, 12:43 AM
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Old 10-07-2009, 12:55 AM
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Welcome. Thank you for having an open mind, no matter what kind of relationships it may be 'wired' for!
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Old 10-07-2009, 01:44 AM
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Welcome! Happy Reading!
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