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Old 03-02-2014, 03:33 AM
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I have a malleable list of poly-friendly cities in the United States. Poly-friendly for purposes of this list is loosely defined as, a city with an unusually large percentage of poly inhabitants, and/or an unusually plentiful number of local poly organizations. From what I've seen/heard so far, the list is:
  • Los Angeles, California
  • San Francisco, California
  • Tampa, Florida
  • Boston, Massachusetts
  • Portland, Oregon
  • Austin, Texas
  • Seattle, Washington
So, can anyone speak for any of these cities, one way or another? Do they all belong on the list? Are there any additional cities I should add?

I've heard rumors about Columbus Ohio maybe belonging on the list. Is that true, or does that sound like just a rumor?

Also, while the list only covers the United States, I'd love to turn it into an international list. Can anyone testify about cities outside the U.S. that would also count as poly-friendly?

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Kevin T.

P.S. My apologies if this subject has already been discussed in some earlier thread. Mods, perhaps merge this with that earlier thread if that's the case? I did do tag searches for "cities" and "poly cities," and had no luck as far as that was concerned.
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This is just my impression - I don't have actual 'data' - but Baltimore is a pretty happening place for polys. I'm not really active in DC poly circles but I get the sense that Washington, DC also has lots of poly folks.

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Oh wow, that's ironic -- the seat of the federal government, where they forbid poly marriages (and marriage-like arrangements), and that's where a bunch of poly people live ... Who knew?

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Seattle, Portland, San Fran and LA are all liberal/progressive so those make sense. Texas surprises me a bit but I haven't been there so it's just my impression. Again, just a guess but Vancouver BC wouldn't surprise me.
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Normally I would say Texas no, but
  • I know a surprising number of poly people from Austin,
  • I hear Austin is unusually liberal for being in Texas.
I suppose I'll add Vancouver, unless anyone else would say otherwise for that city?

Thanks for the input so for guys.
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Normally I would say Texas no, but
  • I know a surprising number of poly people from Austin,
  • I hear Austin is unusually liberal for being in Texas.
I suppose I'll add Vancouver, unless anyone else would say otherwise for that city?

Thanks for the input so for guys.
I would have mentioned it earlier, but you said US only.

Vancouver and Victoria BC are two hot beds of polyamory. Not to mention its general acceptance due to the ability for canadians not to care what happens in the bedroom.

Boston would have been my other guess, having never been there, but seeing how the media is posting reasonably positive articles about the culture.

In my travels, Dallas I suppose would have a chance. Exceptionally welcoming city. Also non-monogamy seems to be the implied norm there, if I judge based on how many offers I receive everytime I visit for work.
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Old 03-20-2014, 11:48 PM
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Kevin,

Asking from the perspective of a relatively new person to poly, what experiences/sources/data have led you to conclude that these are some of the biggest poly cities?

I am merely curious as to what information and experience (personal or anecdotal) that have led you to these conclusions.

Thanks!

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