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Old 12-19-2013, 08:54 PM
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This really should be a poll but I don't know how to do that on here. Interested in what other people are doing out there with their relationships. How many days per week do you all spend with your primary and secondary.
I spend 1 night a week with my secondary and every other week I spend two nights.
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:03 PM
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I have a related question: How much time did you need to establish your relationships?
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:05 PM
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I've known the woman for two and half years but really got serious about 6 months ago. We have been having overnights for about two months.
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:11 PM
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One night a week on a regular basis but pretty constant communication during the week. This is with my girlfriend and it took a few months to really establish the relationship. Anything over that one night I look at as a bonus and if it were up to me it would be more than that.
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:13 PM
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I spend 12-14 days a month with Murf those are overnights and days.


The rest of my time is with Butch.
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:16 PM
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Work and family commitments has tied up most of the time! My GF would like more but I have so much on my plate right now that is all I can give her. Sometimes I feel like I'm ripping her off!
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:16 PM
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I live with both of my partners. I don't do overnights often with GG-because I get anxiety issues in his room (due to his disorganization). But the opportunity to spend time exists every day.
I had a relationship with GG for 5 years before I married Maca. At this point.. almost 21 years with GG and 15 with Maca.
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Old 12-19-2013, 09:23 PM
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I have kids and two jobs actually.. My guys work long crappy hours. Butch 3pm-11pm 7 days straight with 2 days off then 8 days straight with 4 days. Murf works 12hr midnights.Butch watches the kids so I can see Murf if he is off. If he is working then the kids come along.

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