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01-22-2011, 05:19 AM
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eeeek!
Ok I have a pretty dominating personality when it comes to finding new people for my BF. Out of concern of course, as I have mentioned in my other post. ButI am gonna skip talking about him for a minute, because I just realized something. I am all good with poly and all, I like I want it, etc.... but I'm talking to an old friend right now who I have been intimate with before and she and her new hubby want me to come visit. "like that". It just occurred to me how shy I am when it comes to others propositioning me. Like VERY. Turn bright red, stumble over my words, dont know what to say, kinda shy. And since I am moving away, and haven't dated on my own in YEARS, This is something I need to get over. I am not even sure how it happened. I USED to have balls of freaking steel! Where did they go? How did this happen?!?!?!? More importantly, what am I going to do about it? I am not happy to discover this fact about myself. 
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01-22-2011, 06:48 AM
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If you hadn't discovered it, you couldn't address it...
So I'd say you're still ahead of the game, since self-awareness is key to finding a resolution to such things.
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01-22-2011, 02:14 PM
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Welcome to the club!
 I've been this way for years now. My wife is the talker/communicator. She is very open and social. I don't know how to introduce myself....But I'm getting better....and as I'm opening up to more and more people, the women aren't so taken aback when I ask them out.  Of course, none of them have taken me up on it yet...but I'll keep asking. LOL I had one lady say "I don't think your wife would appreciate that!". I told her "You might be surprised. She's actually fine with it." So she said "Well, I don't do wives.". I smiled and said "I can respect that.". And I left it at that. Now, since this conversation, this woman has been a LOT more talkative with me. Not overly so, but more talkative for sure.So just be more open. 
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01-22-2011, 02:31 PM
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I should have saw this coming. I was talking to someone from here yesterday about how I got all freaked out about guys checking me out at comic con. But I figured, that was mostly the amount of them doing so! That can be a bit daunting. So understandable. But I know this girl! We have already played Acrobats in the Bedroom, so why did I get all nervous? I really caught myself off guard. Glad I did though, before I get moved and out in the middle of my brand new life and end up sitting home with my cats out of fear. LOL.
Thanks for the support! I was just a bit freaked out. Definitely going to have to work on this. haha. (Seriously though! WTH? LMAO!!!!) Sadly, I am going to have to turn her and new hubby down. They live an hour away and I just don't have the time to go spend with them. Move date is coming up too soon, and I have too much to do. =(
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01-22-2011, 02:35 PM
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Quote:
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01-22-2011, 03:50 PM
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Quote:
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