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Old 07-24-2009, 09:30 PM
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Talking A small Hurdle...leapt right over.....

So yesterday When AL and I were talking On Skype.... I asked My Two daughters ( 6 and 9) What they would think Of AL coming to live here(in Australia)... The screams Of excitement just about deafened us. lol. Then I asked if they Would mind If She came to live with us.. Again the screams we ear bursting. Lol. The looks Of sheer excitement and Love was adorable.
I left it at that at that time... Later on in the car My Dd who is 6 ( she is amazingly intuitive this one!!) Pipes up and Says... When She comes to live here she is gonna be our second Mummy! We told her that they would be expected to treat Her with the Same respect and way that they treat Mummy and Daddy. Which of course they went Awwwwww. lol.

While this is only just the start of the transition we were pleased that they took it so well and openly. We Always knew there wouldnt be any issues with her coming home. All the Kids Adore her very much. The Little Guy thinks she is better then sliced bread!

I Just wanted to share this with you all. Hurdle one...gooonnnnee.
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Old 07-24-2009, 09:33 PM
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Old 07-24-2009, 09:34 PM
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hehe yes yes I am still nearly deaf nearly 24 hours later! lol they were adorable and I love that little b said that makes my heart soar.

*happy dance* Will make the next conversation much easier I think
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Old 07-24-2009, 09:41 PM
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Old 07-25-2009, 02:45 AM
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Congrats! That should make things go a lot smoother if the kids are excited about the relationship.
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Wow. This just further proves my idea that children have infinite capacity for love and it is only increased or diminished by those who shape them. You're doing a great job! Congratulations.
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oh, yay!! i am soo rooting for you guys!!!
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Old 07-25-2009, 11:35 AM
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Wow. This just further proves my idea that children have infinite capacity for love and it is only increased or diminished by those who shape them. You're doing a great job! Congratulations.

Thanks! Thats exactly what Im hoping.. To raise well adjusted, open minded and Independent thinking kids!
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