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Old 01-06-2011, 12:34 AM
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I am coming over here from SomeGeezer's blog...

He's having a problem being able to get out of his current 'rut' and - it appears - going in circles in his head...

I figured it might be an idea to do something completely new and out of character to get his juices flowing again... (obviously while staying safe, sane, healthy etc) just something to shake things up so to speak...

So - if everybody could chime in here with ideas for creative expression or ideas for shaking things up... I thought it might be useful for a lot of people on here - myself included...

I suggested bungee jumping and a walk in the park taking pictures... doing something creative other than what he's used to. And not necessarily something you need to have others involved in...
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Old 01-06-2011, 12:41 AM
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Thank you FlameKat. =] I do think this could help anyone who needs to keep their mind off stuff too.
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Old 01-06-2011, 12:50 AM
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Walking for me
In the summer a bike ride really gets me going
Winter time is harder, I can throw myself into my job

honestly, my brain and I have had an ongoing battle for years. I don't always win. All the little things never help me. Sometimes just writing out everything in your head helps. Like a reboot. Overprocessing whats going on sucks, but its something I sometimes need to do.
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Thank you FlameKat. =] I do think this could help anyone who needs to keep their mind off stuff too.
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Old 01-06-2011, 01:02 AM
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I understand of course. =]

I like going walking sometimes. Haven't in a while. It's something I feel terrible doing for taking my mind off stuff though. It makes me think even more deeply.
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I understand of course. =]

I like going walking sometimes. Haven't in a while. It's something I feel terrible doing for taking my mind off stuff though. It makes me think even more deeply.
Do you listen to music when you walk. Visualize something you like to do. I tend to visualize sports as I enjoy them. If I can distract my focus long enough everything else falls by the waysite. Its pretty much the only way I meditate.
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Old 01-06-2011, 01:10 AM
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Do you listen to music when you walk. Visualize something you like to do. I tend to visualize sports as I enjoy them. If I can distract my focus long enough everything else falls by the waysite. Its pretty much the only way I meditate.
I listen to music most the time. Keeps people from talking to me when I have huge headphones on. =P Plus my most favourite things to do involve music or talking to this girl which my mind is fixating on in the first place. =P Not going well for me here really.

It is a great form of meditation though. I often fall asleep listening to music. I tend not to think before I sleep, but I've heard a lot of people do most their thinking at that time. That's usually a time I'm able to really concentrate on what is happening within the song or just be so tired I fall asleep instantly.
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