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Old 01-20-2013, 08:02 PM
Javabean Javabean is offline
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Im new here. Trying to figure out what is going on with a woman i have been dating. Can someone pm me

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Old 01-20-2013, 11:26 PM
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What's up Javabean? Have you got a question you would like to ask about the woman you are dating? If you post it here, we can all try to help you.
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Old 01-21-2013, 06:36 PM
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Is the silent treatment a form of breaking up?
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Old 01-21-2013, 07:16 PM
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I was broken up with that way once. We were in high school. So, I'd say that, yes, there are people, immature people, who use that as a way of breaking up. Really sorry if that's what's happening to you. I'd say, if it's really been a while -- like, a couple of weeks -- just leave the person a message saying "If you want to contact me to tell me what's up I will listen, but I'm assuming we're over and am going to start working on moving on."
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Old 01-21-2013, 07:25 PM
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Well im very confused. Went from im so in love with you to silence. I really dont know what to do. I feel frozen. Hurt too.
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Old 01-21-2013, 07:48 PM
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Can you share any details -- how long you two had been together, how long the silence has been going on?
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