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Old 09-11-2010, 12:33 AM
vodkafan vodkafan is offline
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Hi all,

A poly friend invited me over here. My wife and I are 8 weeks into a poly relationship. She fell in love with another guy, she didn't plan it it just happened. We went through a hard time where she left but came back. She was literally split between us she loves us both, so in desperation I suggested a plan where she lived with me for 4 days and him for 3 days per week.
I did this to try to save our marriage, we knew nothing at all about polyamory, we were not looking for a lifestyle or anything.
The first month was hard, very hard.
But it is now working and things are getting better.
I went looking for advice on another relationship forum and got a lot of abuse and insults, although one or two people were sympathetic.
I look forward to talking to you all on here.
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Old 09-11-2010, 12:40 AM
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wow, it sounds like you really roll with the waves, so to speak.

Welcome to this forum!
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Old 09-11-2010, 12:49 AM
vodkafan vodkafan is offline
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wow, it sounds like you really roll with the waves, so to speak.

Welcome to this forum!
I guess I do. I am a "bounce back" kind of person. Plus all the alternatives were too horrible to think about.
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Old 09-11-2010, 01:06 AM
Livingmybestlife Livingmybestlife is offline
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VF,

It is nice to see you here. I know you will find it a much friendlier place then were we were.

Hugs,

LYBL
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Old 09-11-2010, 01:29 AM
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Oh you two are "together" then?
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Old 09-11-2010, 02:59 AM
vodkafan vodkafan is offline
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Oh you two are "together" then?
That would be quite difficult, as I live in England. LMBL is the lady who kindly suggested I come here.
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Old 09-11-2010, 03:03 AM
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VF,

It is nice to see you here. I know you will find it a much friendlier place then were we were.

Hugs,

LYBL
Hugs back at ya LMBL. Yes I am sure this place will be better. I have looked on a couple of threads and see the exact same issues my wife and I have been dealing with!
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Old 09-11-2010, 03:32 AM
Livingmybestlife Livingmybestlife is offline
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We are not togather, we were on another forum. Vodkafan, I felt badly,while about 2 people were supportive of him. He was new to the situation, and he was getting bashed about. When he finally got private messages, I sent him one sending him here, so the haters wouldn't follow.

I am in a relationships with husband and my BF, we all live in the US.
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