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View Poll Results: Is it possible to have more than one "soul mate"?
YES 23 69.70%
no 1 3.03%
I'm not sure...possibly? 9 27.27%
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Old 08-04-2010, 11:13 PM
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Ok, I have a question....Is it possible to have TWO (or more) "soul mates"?

I'm not so sure.....I mean, I am married to my "soul mate". We've been married for the last 20 years. When we got together, we both kinda knew we would be together for life.....I mean, it only took us a month before we got married.

Anyway, I'm falling in love with a second woman.....and while I love her, the bond isn't nearly as strong as the one with my wife. I assume thats normal, since we don't live with the second woman. But anyway.....What do you guys think?
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Old 08-04-2010, 11:19 PM
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Look up the term "anam cara"...I find soul mate has always been limiting. I became attached to the term soul friend (anam cara)...

It better explained my feelings in life, well before I even knew what poly was
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Old 08-04-2010, 11:24 PM
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I dont really believe in souls, per se, but yes, I can surely say one can meet more than one person who vibrates with you on so many different levels, you feel very bonded almost from the first meeting.

Not just romantic partners. Sometimes it happens w platonic friends for me as well.
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I think our souls are free to bond with many over the course of our lives. I considering it soul mating as opposed to soul mates perhaps. Hmmmm something to think about.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:27 AM
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I think our souls are free to bond with many over the course of our lives. I considering it soul mating as opposed to soul mates perhaps. Hmmmm something to think about.
Glad I could give you something to think about.
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Old 08-05-2010, 02:49 AM
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look up a comparison of Twin Flames and Soul Mates as well.
You will find that there are a LOT of difffering opinions on this topic.

I have a whole section called "borg" on my blog about it.

I won't bore everyone here though!

I personally believe that yes you can and no they aren't always lovers.

I woudl swear my Godson and I are connected in that special way that you just know you should be together. We ARE NOT ever meant to be together in a worldly "couples" sort of way. But we are created for a major purpose in one another's lives and we both feel it, sense it, know it, whatever.


OF COURSE Ariakas has the KILLER word! That's how he gained my friendship! By telling me to look that word up.

Great guy-awesome word!!
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:12 AM
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I dont really believe in souls, per se, but yes, I can surely say one can meet more than one person who vibrates with you on so many different levels, you feel very bonded almost from the first meeting.

Not just romantic partners. Sometimes it happens w platonic friends for me as well.
That's what I was going to say too.
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