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Old 11-27-2012, 04:33 PM
riftara riftara is offline
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Default Falling.

I've been seeing this guy V for awhile, though we just made things official two months ago and physical a month ago.

I think that I think I love him.

I'm not sure how to broach the subject with him and normally I wouldnt but I'm scared and I'm afraid he will think I'm pulling away from him if I dont explain my feelings.

I've been burned in the recent past and he's just getting over a divorce, I dont want to be hurt and I dont want to push him either. He said he was ready to be emotionally availible now, but I'm afraid expressing my feelings will put pressure on him and I dont want to do that.

How do I express my feelings without putting pressure on him?

I wrote him a letter about how much I loved his company and how amazing I think he is, kinda to be a buffer to my deeper feelings, but he hasnt responded yet.
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