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Old 05-13-2010, 09:20 PM
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Old 05-14-2010, 12:21 AM
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Welcome aboard.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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Old 05-14-2010, 04:32 AM
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Great story...and welcome to the board...truly
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Old 05-14-2010, 05:23 PM
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Huh.

Nobody else can pipe in on my reverse jealous wife syndrome?

My husband and I have such a great relationship and our new partner is so deserving of respect and love! I just want to do my best to assure that every one feels as if they got the long, the best, the most wonderful part of this relationship! For me, that means we all LOVE each other, independent of the other(s) and as a whole.

Perhaps I have my own "deserving issues". I guess it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world to be in a "V" relationship, but that is not what I really want.

I know that you cannot force "love" and I dont want to, not really- well, maybe sortof. If I could wave a magic wand, I would. For sure. But ehhhh. See?

Anyways, we got together last night and my husband had to process with me after. He was struggling with feelings of guilt because when he looked into her eyes, he felt the same sense of love that he feels from and with me. So- yes, some issues to work through- but I have HOPE! and more confirmation!

And SHE called me this morning to chat about her feelings for HIM with me, just wanting to make sure that I was doing ok with it.

We are each going through what feels like a deep spiritual awakening.

Thanks for listening.
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Old 05-14-2010, 05:32 PM
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You make a lot of us jealous. Congrats on your newfound relationship. I truely envy you...All three of you. Enjoy it...and remember to COMMUNICATE. No matter how small or petty seeming the issue, COMMUNICATE it with your partners. If anyone can help you, THEY can.

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Old 05-15-2010, 02:36 AM
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OMG!!! I want that soooo bad too!!! Please keep sharing !!! I want to hear everything !!!!
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