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05-06-2010, 10:22 AM
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a work in progress
I still haven't met D's wife. time is not allowing it. May just be a better thing though. he was showing me pictures from her show. I was seriously doing really well with the who jealousy thing until that moment. I had this huge moment of :"Why is he with me?!?" Didn't bring it up as he was just so proud to be talking about her and her work. Didn't have the heart to take the smile off his face. So I now get to explore this feeling and figure everything out.
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05-10-2010, 03:05 AM
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Have you asked him what it is he finds attractive about you? Perhaps learning what it is he values about you will help you feel more secure.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around. While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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05-10-2010, 07:08 AM
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I hope you do get to meet her. It would be very helpful. I can see distinctly what it is that my nerdist loves about me now that I have experienced who he is attracted to. It makes me laugh actually and love him all that much more. She probably will have very similar traits to you in various ways but you are also completely different. No doubt you are unique in every way and he cares and loves you for it... good for you for taking the exploitative approach and attitude. It will serve you well to look at your feelings from out side of them and see them as a thing of interest rather than a threat.
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05-10-2010, 09:51 AM
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thank you both. I will ask as it's the only way to learn.
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05-14-2010, 11:28 PM
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grrrrr.....I'm frustrated. D and I were to get together to discuss this guy I've been seeing. it's a recent thing and I wanted D's opinion on the guy and he was going to answer my questions about the rules he and L have. he had to cancel. I feel a bit jipped. I get to see D maybe once a week and he canceled. I know that he couldn't help it and wouldn't have unless it was an emergency. so I'm frustrated and feel selfish for feeling frustrated.
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05-16-2010, 04:56 PM
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well no need to discuss the guy I was seeing as he turned out to be a not so nice person
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