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Old 06-06-2012, 02:27 AM
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Wink Hey, openminded bi girls....

Basically I made this group for bisexual women who are looking for a more alternative lifestyle than just one sex. I kno...w I'm not the only one out there, lol. Bisexual women who want a man and a woman in one relationship that share all things, physical and general day to day life.

Personally, I have a boyfriend and I have this problem so we are looking for a single girl interested in the same thing.

So to summarize, this group is for bi women and couples looking for a different sort of relationship.

http://www.facebook.com/groups/lucky...three/members/

Join if you're interested! You don't have to be a bi girl to join, you can be a couple looking as well.
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Old 06-06-2012, 02:32 AM
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Cool. I just joined. I'm the 5th member LOL And, I'm already in one of those relationships, but I can show support : )
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Old 06-06-2012, 03:45 AM
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Ha, awesome thanks for the support and some inspiration.
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Old 06-06-2012, 03:42 PM
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So to summarize, this group is for bi women and couples looking for a different sort of relationship.
How is this different from the relationships that all of the other unicorn hunters want to find out there?

Can you explain how this is different, please?
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Old 06-06-2012, 04:13 PM
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How is this different from the relationships that all of the other unicorn hunters want to find out there?

Can you explain how this is different, please?
I think she meant different from monogamy.
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Old 06-06-2012, 04:26 PM
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I think she meant different from monogamy.
OK, I guess the frame of reference I had was this forum, where what was described is very very common and not really different at all.
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Old 06-06-2012, 07:41 PM
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OK, I guess the frame of reference I had was this forum, where what was described is very very common and not really different at all.
Oh, I realise that, but since the OP only has two posts, I'm guessing she found the forums to share her link, and is used to a pitch targeted to general society, with heteronormative monogamy.

Interesting tidbit, at the time I'm writing this post (so not anymore when I press submit) I have 886 posts and you, Ciel, have 868.
Not sure if anyone would find it as interesting as I do, but here you go.
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Old 06-06-2012, 10:28 PM
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Not sure what good it will do, but I joined. Support is support, right?

(I think many of us are searching for unicorns out there, definitely among the norm on this site!)

But thanks nonetheless!

(Oh and also, for bi women, there is a bi girl site: www.shybi.com )
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Old 06-10-2012, 04:13 AM
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I gotta say that making a whole group just for one's target population is a creative new hunting tactic. Props for originality. I should set up a "With-It Blokes Between 35-50 Who Are Also Reasonably Geeky and Open To Poly" group. What say, CdM? You're only a couple years off the target; you could join, too!

Okay, putting on my serious dating advice hat: be prepared to crash and burn hard before things work out. If you're committed to a closed triad, commit now or forever hold your peace. This means if your prospective partner can't in all honesty say zie wants to be with you both (or ends up deciding zie likes one better than the other), then you've got to be firm. I would be horribly disappointed, for example, if a pair I was seeing decided to dump me just because I didn't have chemistry with one of them--so I'd rather know up front that a couple is a package deal.

Also, it's really very nice to know more about said couple than "We want YOU!" What are your hobbies? Do you have children? Do you want more? What are your extended families like? Do your friends know about poly? And so forth. You are people looking to date people, not roles looking to date roles.

Good luck!
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