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Old 01-04-2010, 04:47 PM
JessieNY JessieNY is offline
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Hello all! I just stumbled upon this website and am happy I did. I am married to a wonderful man who happens to believe in polyamory as do I but I am finding it hard at times to get over the jealousy and insecurities that I have. We have had one relationship -not really serious 10 years ago. Just recently we talked about finding a serious relationship. My hubby loves to help other people and I love his way of thinking. Though, we have been together for over 10 years it is hard for me to overcome this insecurity that i have since we decided about possibly adding another woman to our home. I love the idea of having a friend and a bond with another women, yet the idea of sharing my husband emotionally is hard. Will I ever get over these feelings? I just hope that I can and also hope that we can meet the right woman with whom I can fall in love with as much as I am in love with my husband.
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Old 01-04-2010, 07:53 PM
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Welcome to the forum. You will find a lot of good people that have been there and can help.
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Old 01-04-2010, 07:56 PM
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Welcome! As PittDruid said, your situation is one we see and help each other through frequently (not elittling your situation in any way), and you will find plenty of advice here!
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Old 01-04-2010, 07:57 PM
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Jessie, welcome to the forum - hope you find the answers you seek.
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Old 01-04-2010, 08:03 PM
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welcome jessie. i wish you all the best in your endeavours. don't forget - no relationship is "easy", but some are worth the struggle! i hope you find the support you seek here x
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Old 01-04-2010, 08:15 PM
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Welcome, from another NYer non-city *wink*. With 10 years of knowing about and exploring Polyamory I am sure you'll have some great input as well.
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Old 01-06-2010, 11:32 AM
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Hi, Jessie

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