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Old 12-03-2009, 11:48 PM
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Hello everyone...

I've been a bit timid to put this post up... But I think that it's time.

I'm a 21 year old single, bisexual woman. I'm 5'7'', of medium/slim but curvy frame with dark hair and eyes and very, very fair skin.

My personality is somewhat quirky as I'm hyper creative. I write, sing, read, and love all things that have to do with the creation of other worlds through art.

I am seeking a polyamorous couple, triad, or other arrangment that I can join. Location is not important to me as I am willing to move for a good arrangment. However I would like everyone to understand that I want to get you know you WELL befor I would consider doing that.

I would prefer people who are in good physical health as far as apearence. Age is open as long as everyone is over 18. The one thing I truly have no tolerance for anyone with a history of sexual misconduct.

Other than that, I'm open to getting to know anyone. People interested and active in arts/music/writing are a plus.

Cannot wait to meet and get to know you.
- All my Love.
Old 12-04-2009, 02:41 PM
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Hey Erosa,

I'm not sure where to even begin exactly...

i'm older than you, not in your area of the world, and not looking for even the same type of connection! hahaha

that being said, I DO consider myself a very creative person! I play drums and some guitar and bass, love to paint miniatures and enjoy messing about with photography and photoshop.

anyway....since i am so utterly new to this.....i was wondering if perhaps we might chat occasionally? This may sound a bit self serving, but I find reading about other peoples experiences help me to interpret my own journey.

so if being creative is enough.....

Old 12-05-2009, 03:10 AM
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Default Good luck my friend!

Cloves-she's a good chatter!

Erosa-I like the addition of no sexual misconduct.

Do take time getting to know people, it helps.

I think I told you-I've been friends with GreenGecko for almost 17 years now. It's very helpful if you can really know someone as a reliable and dear trusted friend before moving on to being a "family". Lovers-well that can be ok-but when you are talking about moving and creating a family (even if said family is all adults) it really is best if everyone has a full understanding of not only themselves, but each other and the way they relate to one another on a personal level..

I do so wish you the best of luck in your search!

Sometime soon I hope to no longer be so isolated in this frozen arctic and then maybe I can actually meet some of you sweet people who have befriended me online and just enjoy knowing other like-minded friendly people!!!
"Love As Thou Wilt"
Old 07-07-2010, 10:47 PM
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How did this thread not end up being 100 pages long within minutes? LOL I guess everyone went to PM. Erosa - just curious - did anything come of this?

"On topic" - sounds like you'd fit right in to our grouping, though many would say we're pretty full at the moment, LOL. But we thought it would end with a triad, and the 4th just popped in and worked out and nobody could deny it and it's been fabulous - so who knows?!
Old 07-08-2010, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive View Post
How did this thread not end up being 100 pages long within minutes? LOL I guess everyone went to PM. Erosa - just curious - did anything come of this?
Could be any of a number of reasons:

Folks too old;
Folks too fat;
Folks not looking for a triad;
Folks not wanting to deal with distance;
<insert reason here>.

For example, Curly and I are much older and fat. We also don't arrive as a matched set for partners. Sure, we've occasionally thought it could be cool if we met a lady who knocked the socks off both of us; it's never been something that we've had much interest in pursuing.

So, while the distance isn't much of a problem, a unicorn would have to be pretty spectacular and chase us down for anything to happen.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
Old 07-09-2010, 12:27 AM
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Good point all; however the sheer number of "couple seeking unicorn" type threads and posts and the fact that so many people new to poly think that girls like her are EXACTLY what they "need" would lead me to believe that she'd be inundated with responses, lol.
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