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Old 10-19-2011, 06:07 AM
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Hi everyone, I am new to this site as of a few hrs ago, and after reading this thread was wondering if poly is the right term for what we (my boyfriend and I) are looking for. As in we are looking for another bi female to love together in a closed relationship. Everyone loving each other together as not only lovers but also as soulmates.
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Old 10-19-2011, 10:54 AM
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You are a primary couple seeking a unicorn. A big percentage of couples first opening their relationships look for a single hot bi babe to "share" or "add." Do a tag search on "unicorn."
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Old 10-20-2011, 05:30 AM
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Hey amchr,

I posted this a while back on a different blog, my thoughts on why het couples seeking a single, bi woman (aka a "unicorn") often get a bad rap. Perhaps it will be useful to you in your journey:
http://www.lovemore.com/blog/?p=1050...#comment-28308

See also this thread, "advice for couple seeking third": http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3693
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Old 10-23-2011, 05:05 PM
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I have been the unicorn in two other relationships. So, yes, I truely understand all that you are trying to tell me. And no we would not be so closed minded that we would not think of the other person's feelings. The wheels of love turn slowly in relationships like these and neither my partner or I would risk rushing into anything and not giving ALL parties involved time and space to adjust to the situation.
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Old 10-23-2011, 05:37 PM
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That experience will surely help, then. Best of luck!
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