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Old 08-30-2011, 09:26 PM
FriendOfPolys FriendOfPolys is offline
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Default Question of etiquette

Long time lurker, first time yada yada yada

Quick background - I started lurking here because a dear friend is getting married, turning a triad into a quad. The two other women in this tangle came up to Canada and got married last year, and my friend was to get married on New Years this year. Economic considerations moved their marrage up to last week, and I'm now scrambling to catch up!

My question - should I be getting a wedding present for the happy couple, or the happy quad?

Also, any good Poly Wedding stories?

Thanks in advance!
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Old 08-31-2011, 09:52 PM
dingedheart dingedheart is offline
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I would give the gift to the couple getting married .....but thinking of the quad ....like an eight slice toaster ...active quads can really go through toast.
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Old 08-31-2011, 10:17 PM
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I think if they will be cohabiting as a quad, get them a present that all of them can use. Wine glasses are a nice idea.

If all four are not going to be living together, then just buy for the couple. Wine glasses would still work. A nice picture frame is always useful.

I guess they didn't register anywhere?
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