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Old 11-10-2009, 12:44 PM
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Well, I went ahead and sent an email to both of them this morning - inviting them to come here. I'm very nervous (I can tell by all the typos I've had to fix). I don't know if they will. I don't know how this day is going to go.
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Old 11-10-2009, 04:19 PM
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Default Well, tell 'em to stop and say hi

I'm not sure how that will work, I really don't want my wife to come on here, as I use this place to help me collect and organize my thoughts and receive feedback.
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Old 11-10-2009, 04:50 PM
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Both of my partners come on here. Not everything pertains to us, but most at least invokes conversation! Communication is a good thing!
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Old 11-10-2009, 05:02 PM
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Default well.

I then take that feedback back into our relationship.
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Old 11-10-2009, 05:10 PM
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right now I am on pins and needles waiting for a chance to talk with my husband - he's read the email - is "upset" - but he has a meeting right now - he works at home. I have no clue how this day is gonna go down.
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Old 11-10-2009, 09:42 PM
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It did not go well. Has anybody else started from a place where their partner/spouse/whatever went from NO WAY to understanding and trying this?

We talked a little (time constraints) and we'll talk again tonight. I don't think my husband even came here. In fact he read the link with the word polyamory and thought it said polygamy (and he stewed there for hours). He said a lot of things that confused me and I'm sitting here not knowing what to do next.
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Old 11-15-2009, 05:57 PM
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???

This isn't about meat - (which we all enjoy).

But to continue along these lines...

if meat is polyamory

my husband does not believe in it, no way, no how.

I do.

We love each other.

We have to figure this out.
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