We still haven't found a house. My lease is up May 5 and if we don't get something soon, I can either go month to month in my apt, or leave, have all my stuff moved to Ginger's barn, and move in with miss pixi. So stressful.
We have 3 applications going now. One for a house we haven't even toured yet, just saw pictures! Seeing it tomorrow.
I did make a new friend though, getting back to the topic of polyamory. About one month ago, this super cute, just my type guy viewed my okc profile. A day or so later, I PMed him very casually and friendly-like. He wrote right back, and then we exchanged emails and have been PMing. I'll call him Blondie. He's 29, just my height (5'7"), long streaky blond hair and a close trimmed ginger beard, slim, huge blue eyes. sigh...
He is very nice, well spoken, he can spell, he's smart and gentle seeming. However, he has a sort of gf who is telling him she's poly, but I think she's really just fucking around, and he's feeling quite hurt. I offered a shoulder, and my own poly experience. He's shy, introverted, she's only his 3rd gf. He had 2 others for years each and some periods of being single. Not a playah.
After several emails he asked me to meet him. I suggested the beautiful Mt Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, as he seems to be a nature lover and the day we picked (Easter) was warm. Well, it was a fun date, conversation flowed very easily. I guess he just wants a friend, at least for now, as he's all fussed and hurt about this girl. Well, OK, I'm househunting and totally stressed. Not really in a position to start up with a new bf right now.
But DAMN, he's cute and nice! When I showed miss pixi his photos on okc, she was all, "Ooh, he's pretty! Can we keep him?"
I emailed him yesterday to say I'd had fun and he wrote back today saying he had a wonderful time.
We have 3 applications going now. One for a house we haven't even toured yet, just saw pictures! Seeing it tomorrow.
I did make a new friend though, getting back to the topic of polyamory. About one month ago, this super cute, just my type guy viewed my okc profile. A day or so later, I PMed him very casually and friendly-like. He wrote right back, and then we exchanged emails and have been PMing. I'll call him Blondie. He's 29, just my height (5'7"), long streaky blond hair and a close trimmed ginger beard, slim, huge blue eyes. sigh...
He is very nice, well spoken, he can spell, he's smart and gentle seeming. However, he has a sort of gf who is telling him she's poly, but I think she's really just fucking around, and he's feeling quite hurt. I offered a shoulder, and my own poly experience. He's shy, introverted, she's only his 3rd gf. He had 2 others for years each and some periods of being single. Not a playah.
After several emails he asked me to meet him. I suggested the beautiful Mt Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, as he seems to be a nature lover and the day we picked (Easter) was warm. Well, it was a fun date, conversation flowed very easily. I guess he just wants a friend, at least for now, as he's all fussed and hurt about this girl. Well, OK, I'm househunting and totally stressed. Not really in a position to start up with a new bf right now.
But DAMN, he's cute and nice! When I showed miss pixi his photos on okc, she was all, "Ooh, he's pretty! Can we keep him?"
I emailed him yesterday to say I'd had fun and he wrote back today saying he had a wonderful time.