Sharing our hot new MMF triad experience with you all

Windstar

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Hello everyone,

I am new to this forum. I just found it and am excited to now know that it exists! My wife and I have just recently had another come into our relationship. It is going wonderfully and we are very happy about it.

I have been compelled to write about our experiences together, our processes, our sex life. If I'd have known of this forum when I started writing, I might have posted the writings here, but I've already posted them as a blog online.

So if anyone would care to read about our relationships flowering, you are welcome to visit! Please leave a comment if you visit and like the blog. Warning, I write a lot about the sex, the issues, and our processing. It's 100% real and authentic though. This isn't some porn thing. This is our marriage, and it's our first poly experience/relationship.

http://threesome-adventures.blogspot.com/

I am so excited to find this forum! I've been looking for other people's poly blogs, and they are hard to find! But this forum is full of people's relationship stories! I also look forward to getting to know some of you here.

Blessings and gratitude,
WindStar
 
Wow. So very descriptive in that blog of yours. Got me all hot and bothered just reading some of it! =P Wish you luck and happiness and all that. =]
 
hot and bothered

Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I tend to just follow my source of inspiration while writing, and lately that has been really really heavy on the sex and the processing.

I know so many poly people who have had their hearts crushed with betrayals and broken promises and dreams. I know so many who have tried for the gold ideal and had it blow up in their faces leaving them scarred. I bring this all to the table. They form a significant part of why I am so excited about what is happening for us right now.

It's partially because we have taken things slowly in our primary relationship over the years. It's partially because we have built such a profoundly strong foundation. It's also partially because fate brought a very good fit of a man into our relationship. And of course it's also because it's new and thw whole world is glowing with NRE.

I enjoy writing about the sex. It gets my juices flowing, so to say. i.e. it makes me want to write.

It's also a way for me to sort things out in my head and remember things correctly. without writing them down, things tend to blend together in a blur of memory fragments. Perhaps my blog is more of a poly sex diary than a journal. I don't know. I'm almost 20 posts into it now, and my writing is beginning to expand and improve. They are scheduled one a day all the way through mid-April already.

Maybe I should just post them here and not on the blog? I could take the blog down in 5 minutes. I have no attachment to where I host the items. Any thoughts or feedback on this idea?

WindStar
 
I've been looking for other people's poly blogs, and they are hard to find!

In addition to this Life Stories and Blogs forum, the section where members create message threads that are considered blogs, check out the Golden Nuggets forum. I created a thread there which has links to our members' off-site (wordpress, blogspot, livejournal, etc.) mostly poly-related blogs. I will add yours to the list soon.
 
"Maybe I should just post them here and not on the blog? I could take the blog down in 5 minutes. I have no attachment to where I host the items. Any thoughts or feedback on this idea?"

You can always do both. I personally don't mind going to a different site to read some of your stuff, but you may get more views of it from people on this site if it were on here.
 
Racy!

I gotta say that was some pretty hot stuff... You are a talented writer and it sounds like you have a good thing going. I showed this to my primary and she (who isn't yet interested in having both of us simultaneously) thought it was pretty stimulating.

Aside from the lusty side I LOVE the way you describe cunnilingus. It's poetic. The looking into each others eyes, beds breaking, and the nutella story all make it so personal. You really put a lot of yourself out there. ;)
 
wow! Thank you Heropsychodream! I'm so appreciative when someone takes time to write me their response and feedback to what I'm doing with it all. It's going out on a crazy long limb to write about all of the juicy stuff. If no one is interested, then I shouldn't bother, I think. So again, thank you.

WindStar
 
... to write about all of the juicy stuff. If no one is interested, then I shouldn't bother, I think.

Definitely interested here! So juicy...purely fictional erotica could not be this hot! You have a gift.

Jane("I-think-I-just-found-my-porn")Q:p
 
I would love to read your entire blog, but I find it hard to read with the black background and white letters. I find this format much easier to read.
 
Sorry that the white on black is hard to read!

I know others are affected by this but it didn't bother me at all - actually the darkness of the site added to the "steamy" feel for me - like I was in a candlelit bedroom with all of you! (when I flipped back here my brain went "Ack! too bright...no sex here!")

Everyone has their own preferences I guess.

JaneQ

PS. MrS just told me that he saw a study somewhere that white on black is supposedly easier on your eyes for longer-term reading...your brain just initially complains because it is not what you "expect" to see. Will see if I can find link...
May have been prompted by this lifehacker post: http://lifehacker.com/5483656/change-the-background-color-in-adobe-reader-for-eye+friendly-contrast
Some discussion here: http://ux.stackexchange.com/questions/3282/what-is-the-best-color-combination-for-on-screen-reading
- apparently it depends on the ambient lighting / font used / and whether the reader has astigmatism!
 
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PS. MrS just told me that he saw a study somewhere that white on black is supposedly easier on your eyes for longer-term reading...
This is what I learned from both my sister who is in marketing and is a website designer, and from my studies in videomaking (making titles, captions, etc.). It doesn't have to be black on white, it's just better if it's dark lettering on light background, but there should be contrast.
 
I think it's my age......the eyes have started changing a great deal as I get older. I do get my contact prescription changed every year, but they are not like they used to be.
 
Actually, light backgrounds with dark text is damaging for the eyes. White on black is much better and, in general, easier for most people to read. It was actually the way the internet used to be. Dark backgrounds and light text. In fact, even road signs are usually dark blues and greens and reds with white lettering, as they are the easiest for people to read. There are, of course, white signs with black lettering, and people who read better with dark text on light backgrounds... But they are the minority.
 
There you go- looks like I'm in the minority again! I definitely find dark letters on light background easier to read....in fact, the other way is actually very irritating for me and I find myself straining and squinting. But I don't mind being in the minority.....and the poly minority is the most fun one of all!!
 
You can enlarge the size of the text on a pc by holding down the control key and pressing the + key. You can do this repeatedly to make the text as large as needed. Then to make it smaller hold down control while you tap the - key. that makes it easier for me to read difficult print.
 
can't find blog?

Windstar I am trying to go to your blog but it says server is down....? I am new to a mmf triad & eager to learn all I can.
 
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