TruckerPete
New member
Haha! No Derby I actually get weirded out even if someone I know looks at me with true flirty energy LOL! You are right TP, there is a total freedom and power in being so mono. I can joke and flirt with complete comfort. I guess it could be considered cruel LOL! People know they have no chance and that I willingly belong to Redpepper body and heart. I think there is a little bit of a draw to people who aren't hunting or looking for dates. It's very easy for me to chat with woman because I am completely satisfied and therefore don't project any desirous intentions. There is something to the idea that it is easier for a marriedd guy to pick up. They just don't normally project a hopeful energy which is sometimes seen as desperation or trying too hard.
I definitely have flirty energy in person, and usually mean what I say (to some degree) when it comes to those things. So, I suppose I actually am respecting your boundaries! (Although, if disrespecting you gets me a flogging from RP ... )
For someone with a different flirting style, I see how you would be a true gem and total safe haven. I'd probably just set your teeth on edge!
Ah, always love figuring new things out.