My girlfriend, K, is a full lesbian and does not make deep loving relationships easily, since her parents are/were abusive to her. She keeps telling me that she only wants to be with me and my husband, no one else, and that she would be honored to be a godmother.
While part of me is really happy to hear this, another small part is also sad. I want her to experience what my husband and I have. I would love for her to find someone that she could be one with, in all ways. Since my husband and I are married, and he gets jealous often, it is hard for me to ever give her all of that.
She tells me she is very happy with what she has and feels blessed/grateful that we are in her life (she loves to help foster our relationship and watch us grow closer), I just hope she never regrets not having this complete two-people/one-life kind of love-relationship. I feel slightly guilty and definitely sad (for her). What do you all think about this?
While part of me is really happy to hear this, another small part is also sad. I want her to experience what my husband and I have. I would love for her to find someone that she could be one with, in all ways. Since my husband and I are married, and he gets jealous often, it is hard for me to ever give her all of that.
She tells me she is very happy with what she has and feels blessed/grateful that we are in her life (she loves to help foster our relationship and watch us grow closer), I just hope she never regrets not having this complete two-people/one-life kind of love-relationship. I feel slightly guilty and definitely sad (for her). What do you all think about this?