Dutchess62
New member
Hi all , I wish I were joining under happier circumstances but if I am searching then someone else is too I am sure.
I am a 55 yr old straight poly lady who is or WAS in a long poly relationship with my legal gender fluid husband of 15 years and our dear "Other Husband " also very gender fluid of 10 years. Yesterday we found out through a friend that our husband who went to go help his mom down in LA to work on her cars for a few weeks ( which he does do 1-2 times a year) was found dead in his bed monday morning . We are in total shock . I can't stop crying and my legal husband can barely speak . Because of his mom's disdain for our lifestyle we will not be seeing him again . At all . We have to stay away from everything . His mom waited a day before she asked someone we both knew to let us know ?? He was 53. We are just lost, we are so devastated. occasionally you will read something about death in poly relationships but this is an unusual circumstance .
I hope to see you all on the boards and talk about this and other things as well .
I am a 55 yr old straight poly lady who is or WAS in a long poly relationship with my legal gender fluid husband of 15 years and our dear "Other Husband " also very gender fluid of 10 years. Yesterday we found out through a friend that our husband who went to go help his mom down in LA to work on her cars for a few weeks ( which he does do 1-2 times a year) was found dead in his bed monday morning . We are in total shock . I can't stop crying and my legal husband can barely speak . Because of his mom's disdain for our lifestyle we will not be seeing him again . At all . We have to stay away from everything . His mom waited a day before she asked someone we both knew to let us know ?? He was 53. We are just lost, we are so devastated. occasionally you will read something about death in poly relationships but this is an unusual circumstance .
I hope to see you all on the boards and talk about this and other things as well .