I am 42 and my wife is 40 and we've been married for 17 years. My wife has had a boyfriend for 2 years now. They typically see each other once or twice a week. Her bf is single so she can just go visit with him at his apartment. I love her having a bf however she doesn't want me to have a gf and at this point, I am perfectly fine with that. He gives her very good sex and of course she comes home and gives me all of the details. I'll start with that.....