highlivin229
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(I'm new to the forum, and am unclear about etiquette. This post will be of necessity rather graphic and NSFW. Sorry if this offends, not my intention.)
I've been involved in cuckold couples for about 14 years or so.
It's been my experience that cuckold men, apart from wanting their wives/gfs to be with another man, need the bull to dominate them. This domination can be as simple as social/interpersonal domination, to sexual domination, all the way up to extreme S&M.
In one cuckold relationship, I usually have sex with the woman, S., while R. her husband assists us sexually. (s. is 32, R. about 36, in the military.) He usually prepares his wife for me, fluffs me when I arrive, and gives me AR while I am with his wife. For a time, his wife and I used to paddle him, though that has become less usual. Many times, he offers himself up for me to take him. I usually cum in his wife, though lately I ejaculate into him more often.
Psychologically, I treat him as a kid brother. Because of various issues, R. and I have been meeting privately as of late. In these encounters, I am strict and harsh with him at first, and then after I have had him, tender and supportive.
When r. suspected that S. and I were involved, he was arrogant and bullying towards me. But after he realized that I was indeed with S., and after she made it clear she preferred me to R., R.'s entire attitude changed. Now he is respectful, gracious and a pleasure to be around.
I am also involved with a subordinate at work, call him SaW. After a New Year's Eve office party, his wife and I hooked up, and eventually began an affair. SaW is now one of my closest associates at work—a loyal soldier who has repeatedly protected my interests. He of course knows all about me and his wife, and more than once has expressed to me how happy he is both at work and in our private lives.
The funny thing was, before I took his wife, SaW was a difficult employee, often insubordinate and erratic. But now, he's identified by people in and outside of our firm as "highlivin's guy".
This is just my observation, but it seems to me that cuckolds need the security that a bull can provide. They need to feel that they are clearly and unequivocally subservient—that there is literally no competition. Once they feel that, then they are calmer, more secure, more confident and less bellicose.
Like I said, this has been my experience. Has anyone else experienced something similar?
I've been involved in cuckold couples for about 14 years or so.
It's been my experience that cuckold men, apart from wanting their wives/gfs to be with another man, need the bull to dominate them. This domination can be as simple as social/interpersonal domination, to sexual domination, all the way up to extreme S&M.
In one cuckold relationship, I usually have sex with the woman, S., while R. her husband assists us sexually. (s. is 32, R. about 36, in the military.) He usually prepares his wife for me, fluffs me when I arrive, and gives me AR while I am with his wife. For a time, his wife and I used to paddle him, though that has become less usual. Many times, he offers himself up for me to take him. I usually cum in his wife, though lately I ejaculate into him more often.
Psychologically, I treat him as a kid brother. Because of various issues, R. and I have been meeting privately as of late. In these encounters, I am strict and harsh with him at first, and then after I have had him, tender and supportive.
When r. suspected that S. and I were involved, he was arrogant and bullying towards me. But after he realized that I was indeed with S., and after she made it clear she preferred me to R., R.'s entire attitude changed. Now he is respectful, gracious and a pleasure to be around.
I am also involved with a subordinate at work, call him SaW. After a New Year's Eve office party, his wife and I hooked up, and eventually began an affair. SaW is now one of my closest associates at work—a loyal soldier who has repeatedly protected my interests. He of course knows all about me and his wife, and more than once has expressed to me how happy he is both at work and in our private lives.
The funny thing was, before I took his wife, SaW was a difficult employee, often insubordinate and erratic. But now, he's identified by people in and outside of our firm as "highlivin's guy".
This is just my observation, but it seems to me that cuckolds need the security that a bull can provide. They need to feel that they are clearly and unequivocally subservient—that there is literally no competition. Once they feel that, then they are calmer, more secure, more confident and less bellicose.
Like I said, this has been my experience. Has anyone else experienced something similar?