Done with poly.
Sorry you feel used and hurt.
"Poly" is not only unicorn hunters and 3way sex triads. Poly is about loving more than one person romantically. Doing a triad or quad is the hardest way to do poly. Most people just date others that aren't couples. I mean they might date a partnered poly guy, but not his primary partner as well.
For example:
I've got a primary gf, miss pixi. I date guys, looking for a bf. (Well, taking a break for now, but...)
miss pixi has a bf, M, and M has a primary gf, LC. My gf and I live together (parttime), M lives with his primary, LC. See? Clear as mud. I'm friends with M and LC, but not lovers.
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