My wife and I are kind of new to the poly life. We have a great friend we've hung out with 1-3 times a week, and traveled with once in a while for the last 2 years.
My wife has always like him, but has now started to have feelings for him and told him. He also likes her, but was very about our friendship and didn't want to do anything to hurt it. Long story short, they went on a date and he fell head over heels for her. But she thinks she made a mistake in telling him she liked him and going on the date.
We thought if she didn't go out with him, the feelings would have only gotten bigger, but now that she has, it might crush him, because he's really really into her. We are new to poly, so we are barely learning to deal with our feelings. But now I think we might really hurt the 3rd.
My wife has always like him, but has now started to have feelings for him and told him. He also likes her, but was very about our friendship and didn't want to do anything to hurt it. Long story short, they went on a date and he fell head over heels for her. But she thinks she made a mistake in telling him she liked him and going on the date.
We thought if she didn't go out with him, the feelings would have only gotten bigger, but now that she has, it might crush him, because he's really really into her. We are new to poly, so we are barely learning to deal with our feelings. But now I think we might really hurt the 3rd.
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