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Old 08-14-2010, 01:59 PM
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Sigh... my ex always puts others first, and then it bites him in the ass.

It's how he was raised. Jesus first, then others, then yourself. (Not that he's xtian anymore.) But EVERYONE's feelings and needs matter. One has to take care of numero uno, you know. Otherwise you'll never have true happiness.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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