I am going through my first break up though poly My husband and I were sharing two girls and one of them told me that poly isnt for her and she just wants to be friends. I am thankful that we can just be friends, but I do love her and it hurts. I am not sure how to feel really...I mean we were only together together for maybe a month, but I honestly had no idea that she didn't feel like things were working out. I always stressed about being honest and being open but I think she was afriad to hurt me, I guess. I wish we could of talked about it face to face, this all happened over text because I was going to pick her up tomorrow to hang out and have a night of fun with my husband and the other girl. Oh, I just feel kinda sad. Any tips?