Ok this is the story...i am in an open marriage with my husband and we are wondering if there is anyone around either NYC area or Saratoga Springs ( we split our time between the two places ) area that are looking for something that is not swinging Don't get me wrong i have nothing against that but i am not sure that that's what we are looking for right now. So male or female, couple - if interested we should talk and well go from there - we are not dying to jump into anything just to make friends that are like minded and maybe more.