seekingclarity
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I'm sorry, this whole Guy B thing sounds very sketchy. You lost me at "weekend in Vegas" as a first date.
Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way...
Which is part of the problem now. Her agreeing to it caused me tons of anxiety ahead of time due to all the sketchiness. I expressed the anxiety and she ultimately chose to go. Her life, her choices. It's not my place to tell her what to do. Just seemed like bad judgment to me.
What's done is done. Now we need to move forward in an ethical way if she wants to continue the relationship. If she won't, maybe I'll have to move on.
DADT is not ethical, IMO. Dating cheaters is very much not ethical. Many people here insist on meeting a new person's SO, especially if waters seem murky.
I tend to agree. How to convince GF of same w/o appearing like my intent is to torpedo the relationship? Maybe I show her this thread or at least mention it to her....
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