semprefire
New member
Hi,
First let me apologize if there is a thread somewhere but time is not on my side in this situation.
I am the married mother of a 2 and a 4 year old who only very recently discovered polyamory. I was introduced to it in completely non-sexual manner. I became very close friends with a poly triad and they have supported my choice to leave my emotionally and mentally abusive husband. You see, he has been basically isolated me from friends I have had for years, accusing me of sleeping with them. He limited the amount of time I spent doing my volunteer work, and a myriad of other examples. I deeply love my children, and would NEVER do anything to put them at risk. The triad that considers me part of their family, are all safe sane caring adults who also care about my children. My husband is vehemently opposed to them spending time with any of them even in my presence. He feels that they are bad influences. May I add that when the idea of becoming involved with them first came up and it would have been me him and one of the other women he was ok until he found out she was not his ideal (heavierset). Then it became immoral and wrong. He is planning on using my bisexuality and polyamorous lifestyle as a way to take my kids away.
That being said I have actively exhausted most of the resources I have been referred to, so I am open to any and all suggestions. Please don't flame me and tell me I am doing poly "wrong" I don't have the time or energy to handle that right now.
Thanks in advance for your time and energy!
Semprefire
Sent from my blackberry please excuse any typos!!
First let me apologize if there is a thread somewhere but time is not on my side in this situation.
I am the married mother of a 2 and a 4 year old who only very recently discovered polyamory. I was introduced to it in completely non-sexual manner. I became very close friends with a poly triad and they have supported my choice to leave my emotionally and mentally abusive husband. You see, he has been basically isolated me from friends I have had for years, accusing me of sleeping with them. He limited the amount of time I spent doing my volunteer work, and a myriad of other examples. I deeply love my children, and would NEVER do anything to put them at risk. The triad that considers me part of their family, are all safe sane caring adults who also care about my children. My husband is vehemently opposed to them spending time with any of them even in my presence. He feels that they are bad influences. May I add that when the idea of becoming involved with them first came up and it would have been me him and one of the other women he was ok until he found out she was not his ideal (heavierset). Then it became immoral and wrong. He is planning on using my bisexuality and polyamorous lifestyle as a way to take my kids away.
That being said I have actively exhausted most of the resources I have been referred to, so I am open to any and all suggestions. Please don't flame me and tell me I am doing poly "wrong" I don't have the time or energy to handle that right now.
Thanks in advance for your time and energy!
Semprefire
Sent from my blackberry please excuse any typos!!