Oh! DarkKnight wants me to copy his convo too. So, here it is:
Hubby - Hey Sis. Calm Yourself.
Hubby - Seriously. Why do you care? Your sister is happy and so am I. Nothing else matters.
Sis - How could u possibly b ok with some other man banging ur wife?
Hubby - Probably because she's happy and I'm not the jealous type.
Hubby - And it's not just about sex.
Sis - Thats the worst part
Hubby - What does that even mean?
Hubby - It is possible to love more than one person at a time, you know. People do it all the time.
Hubby - Not that you should really let it affect your life. Go about your business and let us go about ours. I promise I won't bother you with details with my sex life.
Sis - Well actuall I was feeling like an asshole
Sis - Only because i thoyght u were a great guy for my sister n shefucked this marriage up but hey if ur good with it then great
Hubby - Yeah, most people's reactions have started with a "poor DarkKnight". I find it kinda funny. I'm glad people care about me, but I hope they have a higher opinion of my wife than that suggests.
Sis - no it just dipped. Selfish is what I think
Sis - But hey who cares right
Hubby - Not really. selfish would have been to cheat on me. We talked about our needs first and I suggested an open marriage.
Hubby - So anyway, I hope I have alleviated at least some of your concerns. Our marriage is actually stronger than ever.
Sis - U have to sacrifice some needs for the sake of others. Its y u married.
Hubby - I don't know about you, but I married because I love your sister.
Sis - Well she obviously doesnt remember her vows
Hubby - She sure does. She wrote them after all. She laughs with me and cries with me, comforts me and supports me, loves me faithfully through good times and bad in spite of the obstacles we may face together.
Sis - Faithfully huh?
Hubby - yup. She's not cheating on me.
Sis - U guys have fun. Crazy asses, but its definitely not faithfully either.
Hubby - to me, faithfully means, that her love for me has never wavered. She has remained constant and dedicated. So she has room in her heart for someone else. It doesn't diminish her love for me, nor mine for hers.
Hubby - And yes, we have fun.
Hubby - I also concede that we are crazy asses, but not for the reasons you're thinking.
Hubby - And with that I must bid you adieu. Sleep beckons. Good night and fare thee well.