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Old 03-12-2013, 07:51 PM
doxyflower doxyflower is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
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Default Wifey chiming in...

It isnt that I have run out of desire...just that our sexual dynamic has become so painful for both of us I have felt that to perhaps put it on hold and get it healthy again while we work through these other things might be best. That said I DO understand that without ANY physical intimacy between us his feelings of rejection seem even greater than before. I want to support him working through this fear. I feel like I need to be careful though due to some codependence issues in our marriage. I want to make healthy choices and not step into "caretaker mode." I am trying to learn how to be loving and supportive and cope with his tendency towards emotional drowning. It breaks my heart to see him hurting...
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