Glad I could help - this is why I have an issue with folks talking about finding someone to "complete them". To me that smacks of a desire for dependence (or worse, codependence) because if interdependence is the goal, then each individual is already complete.
The same goes for couples looking for a third to "Complete them" - I could never join a couple like that - I need them to be functioning, both as individuals and as a relationship first. I don't need the pressure of having to live up to someones requirements and expectations for "completion".
So going back to the OP - I would definitely advise sorting through whatever is going on inside you, before looking outside for people. Be self-aware, and as confident in yourself as you can be. If not, you will tend to attract only the "White Knight" type, trying to rescue the stricken damsel...