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Old 05-11-2012, 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted by WhatHappened View Post
I'm here as a result of a long-time friend recently letting me know, after I was divorced, that he has an open marriage and would like to date me. He worries frequently that I'll be shocked or turned off by the very different life he's led, but I have a great deal of respect for him in realizing that he has felt this way a long time, but never given any indication, never flirted with me in all these years we worked together, not even during the many months he knew the divorce was in progress. He even waited until a few months after it was final.
And... ???

Are you going to date him?
The world opens up... when you do.

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